Yes, resist this stranger who was not only showing my Mother a great deal of attention, but was also replacing me as the man of the house! When my Mother first brought Larry into my young life, quite naturally my first instinct was to resist. You see, I didn't meet Larry until I was eight years old. He also taught me something that I only came to realize as an adult, and that is the immense capacity of the human heart.
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He taught me everything of value, including how to respect others, and how to love and engage the Lord with my mind as well as my spirit. To those of you who never met him, just know the river was his Church. He was 78.įor those of you who knew my Dad, you will instantly recognize him in his natural habitat. I made this video with and for my father, Larry Zander, who died a few weeks ago, on May 27, 2011. Looks like barrier methods aren’t as big a barrier to dudes’ porn enjoyment as we thought.I was ambivalent about sharing this video publicly, but my Mother asked me to do it, so I will follow her judgment. Of gay men viewing anal sex, 64.4% preferred it condomless, 29.2% didn’t care, and 6.4% preferred condoms of gay men viewing vaginal sex, those numbers were 50.5%, 45.1%, and 4.3%. Of straight guys viewing vaginal sex, 65% liked it condomless, 31.7% didn’t care, and 3.3% safety-loving guys actually preferred condoms, with similar numbers for anal sex. (The pressure many gay men feel to perform "masculinity" to attract a partner is real.) As for the straight men into gay porn, Downing notes that substantial research reveals that it’s not uncommon for men who identify as heterosexual to be attracted to or even hook up with other men (a reminder that "never ever in a million years feeling an ounce of attraction for the same sex" is not a prerequisite for being, and identifying as, straight).Īnd when it comes to safe sex in porn, while the majority of guys do prefer their porn condom-free, a sizable minority don’t care one way or the other.
" Research has shown that some gay men are attracted to or find heterosexual and masculine men more attractive," a preference Downing believes gay men to enjoy watching porn performers in straight sex scenes. "Sexual attractions and behaviors are more than just identity," he tells. While the rate of straight men watching gay porn may seem unexpected to those outside of the research world, Downing says that his team wasn’t surprised. Bi men, meanwhile, reported watching gay porn at a rate of 96% (nearly as much as the 98.3% of gay men who reported watching gay porn) and straight porn at a rate of 88.3% (a little lower than the 98.5% of straight men who reported watching straight porn). Downing, PhD surveyed 821 men about their porn-viewing habits, they found that 55% of gay men reported watching opposite-gender-oriented porn in the previous six months, while 21% of straight men reported watching same-sex porn in that time frame. Gay men watch men having sex with men, and straight men just want to see naked women, right? A study on gay, straight, and bi men’s porn preferences published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior is newly challenging this notion, as well as helping to answer the question of how men really feel about seeing condom use in their adult entertainment. A common belief about gender and porn is that while women of all sexual identities can get turned on by people of all genders, men only like to watch stuff that aligns with their stated orientation.